The fact that the vaginal passage, which is not even visible to any casual observer of a vagina, is so extensively documented in slang terminology while the very visible clitoral center of erogenous stimulation is lexically ignored shows that the female genitalia is only socially visible with regards to its ability to give pleasure to men.

Me, in the Gender, Language and Culture paper I wrote about pussies.

edit:// Of course, “giving pleasure to men” is a cis-centered statement and I acknowledge that vagina owner =/= women all of the time. Within the context of the essay, I was referring specifically to heterosexual relations between cisgendered people.

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so this is a thing

a bunch of moms are making letters+audio recordings of affirming, validating letters to queer/trans* people who don’t get that kind of support from their moms

i would say more about it but

im kind of busy in this puddle of tears on the floor so

In case any of my followers don’t have this kind of support from home…

my mom did this and if you need an honourary mother i promise she would be happy to talk to you

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when I’m staring at a girl and she thinks I’m hating

but really I’m just gay

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